Have you heard people say – You can lose someone if they are yours. If they were never yours, you never lost them. Some of us are obsessed with our ex lover and cannot get over it. Letting go of the past is the best thing for you.
It is most likely that you will suffer from some sort of degree of depression simply because it is found to be part of the grieving caused by the loss you suffer. Very few people realize how intense the pain is and the way they act, humiliating at the best of times during the breakup period, is all related to the trauma they are suffering.
What happened or who did what is not important anymore. Just forget about it, forgive them and get on with your normal life. You should not have any expectations either from life or future and just take each day as it comes by.
Stop expecting anything from your ex or any person. Only the person going through the situation will know how it feels. But you can cope in the following ways:
Cry all you need to cry. Tears cause a chemical process that allows us to heal our hearts faster. Do not suppress your sorrow and depressed feelings or emotions.
Do not hold on to yourself, there is something more powerful than just you. Realize this and God can help you get through this. Trust and believe, go to church and pray. Make an attempt to get out of the situation rather than holding on to it.
Focus on yourself and not the other person. Pity yourself and find happiness within you. Fill up your loneliness with your activities and work. You have it in you and can make it happen.
If there are moments when the pain comes back, be confident and stand up to it. Live the present moment and see the beautiful world around. Keep away from past memories.
Everybody loves to say forgiveness sets you free, up to that moment where you need to be the one that have to forgive. Then it becomes more easily said than done! However, what or who ever you might blame for the loss of your relationship, bitterness will prolong the negative feelings you have. Although you may not forgive the person/s in person at least do it in your heart.
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